“I had a lovely chat with B yesterday – he really likes Jack. He was commenting on how he recognised and appreciated the support in place. I think Jack could be an extremely positive role model for B. In the past, B has not wanted to appear ‘keen’ in terms of academic work at school. We’ve talked about the ‘swan’ metaphor – paddling fast under the water line so you can appear relaxed on top. Anyway I mentioned that I thought Jack must be quite keen to be doing as well as he is. A perceptive B said. ‘No mum – he’s motivated’ – aha a vital difference! All very heart-warming stuff – and I thought I’d share!